Life is so much natural when you try to do what you are meant to do. To figure out what you are meant to do takes time. Till you do that, life will be a struggle so much that every task will be a uninteresting, boring job. So spend some time daily or regularly to decide what is it that you need to do in life. Based on that, everything will fall in place. Read ‘Creating the work you love‘ by Rick Jarow or peruse this article http://www.paulgraham.com/love.html.