Are you a gardener? Do you love gardening? When you walk through your garden, does it cross your mind that you shouldn’t have planted that annual there or you should have removed the webs or what not. Once in a while, take the stand of a vistor to your garden – just enjoy the beauty and the calmness the garden brings upon you. Likewise, in life, don’t always be critiquing yourself – you should have done that, your shouldn’t have …, etc. Enjoy what life is providing you at the moment. Be a visitor here to enjoy. For a lovely read on gardening, check out ‘Tending your Garden’ by Gordon and Mary Hayward.